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197: Nixing Good Girl Conditioning with Carley Weissert

March 05, 2024 LauraAura | Alignment Coach for Driven Women, Speaker, Author, and Entrepreneur of 16 Years
The Gutsy Podcast | personal development, entrepreneurship, mindset, alignment, intuition and energy
197: Nixing Good Girl Conditioning with Carley Weissert
Show Notes

Have you lived most of your life taking care of and pleasing everyone around you, checking boxes to get things done, and avoiding decisions that might disrupt the things and people around you? If so, you may be in the good girl boat with the rest of us.

Today, we’re chatting with Carley Weissert about nixing the good girl conditioning by learning how to hear and trust yourself while reframing what it means to be “good” in the first place.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How Carley started to shed her good girl conditioning
  • Unlearning that “you need to be good to be loved”
  • Embracing and loving all parts of yourself
  • The importance of sharing your wins
  • Trusting yourself and that others can care for themselves
  • Breaking with good girl conditioning doesn’t make you bad
  • How perfectionism and people pleasing show up
  • Tuning in to yourself and listening to your inner voice


Carley is a women’s life coach specializing in breaking patterns around people-pleasing, perfectionism, and good-girl conditioning! She works 1:1 with clients using everything from inner child and shadow work to meditation and somatic emotional release. With different tools (and lots of questions!), she helps clients tune in to what’s blocking them from having what they want.

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Website: carleyweissert.com

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