The Gutsy Podcast | Mindset, Personal Development & Entrepreneurship for Women

577: Why Successful Women Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns with Riana Malia

LauraAura® | Keynote Speaker, Growth Coach, and Entrepreneur of 18 Years

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As a smart, self-aware person, you’ve probably done a lot of work on yourself, but still you keep ending up in the same relationship, with the same toxic dynamic, wondering why it keeps happening.

Today's guest, Riana Malia, is a transformational coach who helps high-achieving women break this exact kind of cycle. Her methodology is called Clear to Create, and it is based on the idea that you can't go from being held back by old patterns straight to living your very best life. You have to clear before you can create.

The unconscious mind wants resolution, and if needs go unmet early on, it will keep replaying them through your relationships until they get it. That's just how we're wired, but the good news is that you can change it, and this episode will teach you how.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • When staying in the story becomes your identity 
  • The Clear to Create methodology
  • The difference between intellect, insight, and intuition (intuition is the one we keep overriding)
  • How the unconscious mind keeps replaying unresolved patterns through our relationships
  • Why high achievers almost get what they want (and what resentment has to do with it)
  • The Magnet for Miracles process: a 72-hour neurological reset (live walkthrough)
  • How to raise your frequency and start attracting what you actually want


Resources from this episode

The Extraordinary Love Index  — Riana’s free 40-question diagnostic assessment + 28-page personalized report


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