The Gutsy Podcast | Mindset, Personal Development & Entrepreneurship for Women

593: Why Successful Women Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns with Laura Nagiel

LauraAura® | Keynote Speaker, Growth Coach, and Entrepreneur of 18 Years

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You can build a business, lead a team, handle pressure, and usually figure shit out. So why does dating or love feel so much harder? 

Today's guest, Laura Nagiel, is a dating and confidence coach and the creator of the DREAM Framework, the method she's used to help high-achieving women find the one. We're talking dating, perfectionism, control, receiving, and all the ways ambitious women unintentionally recreate the same exhausting patterns, not just in work, but in love too. 

But if you dig deeper, this conversation isn't really about dating or your current relationship at all. It’s more about  your relationship with yourself. Self-trust, letting go of control, and being willing to ask yourself some pretty uncomfortable questions about what you actually want and whether you're creating space to receive it. 

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • Why high-achieving women struggle with dating even when they excel everywhere else
  • The link between perfectionism, control, and people-pleasing in relationships
  • How childhood patterns quietly shape adult relationship habits
  • What it means to become a "match" for the relationship you want
  • Why receiving (love, help, support, time)  is the real common denominator

Resources from this episode

DREAM Framework — Laura Nagiel's signature six-month coaching program guiding high-achieving women through discovery, healing, and strategy to find a committed, high-value partner. 

Auralign Mastermind — My high-touch coaching space for women who are ready to stop depleting themselves for everyone else and start building a business and life that actually works for them. 

Clarity Session — A casual, no-pressure call with me to talk through what's going on and figure out your right next move.


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